Wednesday, April 1, 2009

the Savannah chronicles Day 2

The ice machine excitement continues. Summer hasn't settled down yet. Every new experience brings out giggles and the occasional spontaneous dance. Summer and I went to get ice the first night and as soon as the bucket was filled, in her exuberant manner, she grabbed it to take it to the room. In 1.2 seconds the whole bucket of ice spilled all over the floor. Of course we refilled and continued on our way to the rooms.

Enter night number two. Summer and her mom, Holly, went to fetch our nightly bucket of ice. Summer squealed in her best seven year old squeal as the ice cascaded into the bucket. This night she was extra careful in transportation of said ice. With lid tightly held to the top of the bucket Summer repeated her magic words, "Don't let the ice spill. Don't let the ice spill." Granddaughter and full ice bucket made it back to the rooms without incident.

Tonight Holly and Summer made the nightly pilgrimage to the ice machine. Evidently this will be Summer's responsibility until our time here is over. The walk to the frozen cubes was filled with frolicking all the way down the hallway to the machine. Summer plopped the bucket under the chute and slapped the button with vigor. (My granddaughter does even the smallest task great enthusiasm.) The roar of the ice twirling inside the machine getting ready to drop down only intensified the anticipation of a job well done for Summer. When the ice finally shot quickly down the chute it startled Summer so much she jumped and nearly knocked the bucket onto the floor for the second time this trip. Our girl at last managed to calm herself and deliver the ice without incident.

We watch our little one with great joy. There is nothing we do that is not 'new and improved' for Summer. She isn't bored with anything we do together. There are no jaded comments. No, "I don't want to do that." If it's a little change, or just plain fun, Summer is there, baby. There is so much for children to do and have in 2009. There are over the top birthday parties that encourage the attitude of more and more, please. Some toys cost hundreds of dollars. Children are often inundated with obscene abundance that births extreme selfishness and deepens the sinkhole of perceived emptiness and need.

Please do not assume that because our Summer is open and fun loving and joyful that she lives a perfect life, protected from all pain and trouble or challenge with never a care of her own to confront. Nothing is further from the truth. Summer suffers from asthma and many allergies to materials like polyester and acetate, and certain soaps, lotions, detergents. Her skin reacts with severe eczema to many of her favorite foods: eggs, milk, peanuts and ingredients in her beloved snack foods. From infancy she has learned what eating them does to her with the incessant breaking out, relentless itching and painful broken skin--so she doesn't eat them. And there isn't a child anywhere who loves to eat and enjoys food as much as she does. To have as itch free skin as possible without the torture of a reaction, in a very grown up manner, and even though she'd love to have them, she avoids these things. I don't know if I could do it as diligently as she does. And still, our little girl enjoys life in more fully than many people I know.

I hope little Summer holds on to her love of life and experience for a long, long time and that she never grows up so much that she becomes cynical and ungrateful for the small, good things in life. She helps me continue to find fun through her seven year old's eyes.

Father, thank you for the small, good things. Thank you for letting my granddaughter show me new ways of fun. I'm grateful, Lord. I love you.

Suz

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Through the eyes of a child we find the true and simple beauty of life. To find such pleasure in ice cubes instead of a mindless video game or television show is a direct reflection of the positive influences that Summer experiences each and everyday from her parents and grandparents. It is wonderful that you have this precious time with your girls. Breathe in the fresh Savannah air and be assured that adorable Summer will long remember these moments with her Suzy as some of the most memorable moments of her existence.

Suzanne, thank you for sharing these simple and beautiful adventures with us and for reminding all that read your delicate words that there is more to life then work and stress…there is the remarkable ability of a child’s giggle to bring joy to each of our hearts.

Father, please watch over Suzy and her girls as they make many more treasured memories together. Thank you for allowing me to be part of their lives even through it is from a distance. I love you, Lord.

I love you, Suzanne
Rose

Suz said...

Thank you for your sweet thoughts, Rosie. Sometimes it seems I learn so much but with each passing day I realize my need to learn even more. I love you and know that there is no distance in friendship.

Suzanne